|Love is the intense feelings in harmony between two people for each other, which involves bodily, emotional and intellectual identification. It is of such a nature as to cause each willingly to forego his/her own personality demands and aspirations in favor of the other and which gains its satisfaction through creating a personal and social identity in those involved!|
In LOVE there is no room for:
- Ownership of the other person
It has to be only mutual …… nothing else. No one owns another. What is owned is the relationship jointly and when either breaks it, the relationship is disowned. All of us are free by definition… And everyone does what he or she wants and considers it necessary! The life pack is shuffled, human relations change. Only one thing remains invariable – the desire to be happy… And the best person is near whom you feel desired, the most beautiful, favorite and just happy. “Sometimes people live together all life and up to the end can’t know all about each other”. And true love never fades away even if it is not reciprocated. It remains in the heart to purify and soften the soul.
To love and be loved is the best feeling and LOVE rules the world!
Your relationships depend on your character and therefore first you have a relationship with yourself and your family which gradually transforms into relationships with others where most of the youth have friendships and with each person your relationship is on a different level. But one thing is common in all relationships which is love and happiness. However, the dependence factor plays an important role with adjustments, compromises and sacrifices between you and others. So, you have a relationship with your parents while you are dependent on them and almost all parents make sacrifices for their children. However, as growing adults there is sometimes problems in understanding or blind fears, visions, imaginations, expectations and actions from either side.
The most fascinating of all relationships are the family relationships!
How strong are your relationships? The bond of relationships depend on your upbringing within your family and the outside world. This involves mutual trust and education plays an important role and you emulate many features in your life along with your temperament, beliefs and genetics. the relationships change over a period of time and stability is most important. So, your relationships initially are with your family and later there is a shift when you stand on your feet, start to earn money and then begin your relationships for your own family. This shift has changed drastically over the years from joint families to individual family relationships. And with the changing and commercialized world the value of human relationships has been depreciating.